The quiet part, outloud
Guess X – Adventures in the dark
Recounted adventures
01
The first foray into poly play
A short, sweet… and perhaps, disappointing dive into the new-to-me world of playing with others.
02
The art of finding a mate
The things I have learned over the years when trying to find and vet the perfect play partner.
03
Websites and aps used for play
What aps we have tried and what we have learned about these aps.
04
Staying as safe as possible
What ways we have made sure to stay safe and what you can do to help yourself stay safe when entering the world of non-monogamy.
05
Under wraps… or within a cage
A quick overview of what caging up your partner might look like… or how to ask to be caged up when you are too shy to ask.
06
We will work with you to create a personalized plan to help you achieve your financial goals.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do you combat jealousy?
Jealous is….
How do you separate masculinity in your partner with their submissive side?
Bedroom activities can be separated from daily life, which is often the case in BDSM relationships.
Communicate what you need and expect from your partner; this goes for submissives and dominants.
How do you stay safe?
This can be taken in different ways. Public meets to stay physically safe from harm. Vetting well and testing regularly to reduce risks related to health concerns.
What is your favourite website or ap?
The website with the most success is doublelist and the ap with most success is, naturally, Grindr.